Freelance Work

Grab a cup of coffee and click on the titles ~

Last Published Article:
Just Get Home: For Andrew who would have been 24 Today

HuffPost Articles
The Racism I've experienced as a White Mom who Adopted Black Kids -this one went viral and got the family invited to be guests on the Steve Harvey's special town hall meeting on police and Black Lives Matter

Top 5 Dating Mistakes you don’t want to make in 2016

Effort is Everything when Looking for Love

Five Sweet Lessons I learned from Grandfather’s letters to my
Grandmother

You Just Reminded Silent Victims Like Me Why We Didn't Tell

8 Mindful Mantras for Authentically Finding Love Again

Five Practices of Friendship We Should Introduce to Dating

Ghosting in Dating: Can We All Just Grow Up?

First Date in Twenty Years—Turning the Page on the Next Chapter

Five Ways to Find Love Without Being Attached to the Outcome

Four Important Words to Define in Dating and Relationships

I Woke Up with a Woman in My Bed on Valentines Day and I’m Straight

When You Can't Be Enough Because Your Body Told You So

Just Say NO to Quickie First Dates

Three Bad Dating Habits We Need to Stop Right Now, Ladies

The Art of a Kind Goodbye

Four Dating Tips for Women I Learned Using a Man’s Profile

An Open Letter to The Good Guys with 5 Tips from The Bad Boys

Six Ways to have More Integrity when Dating

Dating Dilemma: When He Forgets His Wallet

Five Reasons Why Car Trouble on the First Date is Perfect

Articles on Scary Mommy:
How to Create Space for Your Gay Teen to Come Out to You

What You Shouldn’t Say to the Parent’s of Gay Teens

Articles on The Good Men Project:
Five Reasons Why Dating App Dates Rarely Happen

What Kind of Lover Am I? To My Lover? To My World?

I Used to Want a Man Who “Gets Me,” But I was Wrong!

If She Didn't Ask to See Your Dick Pic, Should it be a Sex Crime?

The Challenge of Modern Dating in Trump's America

Five Ways to Bring Humanity Back to Dating

Resistance=Empathy+Boundaries

Grieving the Invisibility of Women Who've Survived Sexual Aggression

Steve Harvey, You're No Role Model for My Kids

"It's Just Locker Room Talk" Tells Women Their Bodies Belong to Any Man Bold Enough To Touch them

Below, you will find a list of links where Deborah is quoted for her expert opinion:

Calm Down Millennials. You’re Not the Only Generation Dealing with Ghosting -Washington Post

What Relationship Experts Learned from Their Divorces -Preventive Magazine

9 Pieces of Relationship Advice You Should Ignore -Huffington Post

Simple Actionable Guide to Getting Over Heartbreak -Huffington Post

8 Things Your Friends Will Never Tell You About Your Relationship -Huffington Post

14 Pieces of Reassuring Advice After Divorce -Huffington Post

Zendaya Just Dropped Some Major Wisdom After Her Breakup-Huffington Post

6 Dating Rules for Realists, Not Romantics -Huffington Post

Deb Besinger Teaches Singles How to Date with Kindness and Authenticity -DatingAdvice.com

Dating Expert Deb Besinger Offers a Total Coaching Package to Singles Wondering How to Love Deeply & Wisely -Dating News

Freelance Writing Topics:
Sex, Dating and Relationships
Alternative Parenting
Gay Parenting and Rights
Dating after 40
Single mom/Single Mom Dating
Adoption/Transracial adoption
Racial and Social Injustice
Special Needs Parenting/Adoption
Midlife Re-creation
Being an Introvert
Women's Issues~
(Sexual Abuse, Femininity, Confidence, etc)
Questioning Religion
Leaving Fundamentalistic Christianity
Grief and Loss of a child (and all root family members)
How we can Bring more Love into the World
Human Interest Stories
and more

If you'd like to commission Deborah to write or speak on the topics above for your publication or podcast~